Adults only (18+). Nothing explicit here, and members’ photos never leave the site.
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A confident woman on a night out

Curvy women and the people who love them

For curvy women and the men who prefer them.

Casual dating for curvy and plus-size women and the people who find them gorgeous. Every photo is checked by a person, and respect is the house rule.

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Free to join and browse. 18+. We’ll check your photo is you.
Real photosEvery photo checked by a person
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Your rulesChoose who can message you

Who it’s for

Same idea. Different reasons.

Women and men come here for different things. We built it for both.

For women

Wanted, not a fetish

  • Men here are into you, not looking to make a joke.
  • Only hear from Verified men if you prefer.
  • Report anyone who’s rude. A person reads every report.
  • Keep photos private until you choose to share.
For men

Women who know they’re gorgeous

  • Curvy women who want something casual too.
  • Every photo is checked by a person.
  • The Verified badge means she’s passed an ID check.
  • Be respectful and you’ll do well here.

Near you

Verified members near you

Photos stay blurred until you join. That protects them, and it will protect you.

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Example cards. Real members appear here only if they choose to, and photos stay blurred until you join.

Three steps

How it works

Join free

Say who you are and what you’re after. About two minutes.

Get checked

A quick selfie so we know your photo is you. Add an ID check for the Verified badge if you like.

Chat, then meet

Talk until it feels right, then meet somewhere public first.

Verification

Verified means verified

Every member’s photo is checked by a person before anyone sees it.

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1A person checks every photo

Before any profile goes live, a member of our team looks at the photos. Anything that looks borrowed, edited or fake doesn’t get through.

2A selfie check

We ask for a quick selfie to make sure the person in the photos is the person on the profile.

3An ID check for the Verified badge

Members can check their ID with Yoti in about a minute. Yoti checks the document and tells us it matched. We never see or keep the document.

4Reports read by people

Report a profile and someone on our team reviews it. Fake profiles are removed.

Before you join

Questions people ask

In shortXXX BBW Dates is a casual dating site for adults. Every profile photo is checked by a person, members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, and joining and browsing are free. Adults only.

Is this site respectful of plus-size women?

That’s the point of it. Rude or fetishising messages break the rules, and a person reviews every report.

Is XXX BBW Dates real?

Yes. Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live, and members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge. Profiles that look fake are removed as soon as they’re found.

Will anyone know I’m on here?

Your photos stay inside the site, your profile never appears on search engines, and the name on your bank statement doesn’t mention dating.

Is XXX BBW Dates free?

Joining, making a profile and looking around are free. A membership lets you read and reply to messages, and you’ll see the options before you pay anything.

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