Adults only (18+). Nothing explicit here, and members’ photos never leave the site.
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Casual dating across the UK

Casual fun, close to home.

For adults across the UK who want something casual and are honest about it. Every photo is checked by a person, and nothing happens until you want it to.

See who’s nearby

I’m aWomanMan
Looking forA man
Town or postcodeNear me
Have a look, free
Free to join and browse. 18+. We’ll check your photo is you.
Two adults on a night out
Real photosEvery photo checked by a person
Verified badgeMembers who pass an ID check
DiscreetA plain name on your statement
Your rulesChoose who can message you

Who it’s for

Same idea. Different reasons.

Women and men come here for different things. We built it for both.

For women

On your terms, start to finish

  • You choose who can message you.
  • Only hear from Verified men if you prefer.
  • Meet somewhere public first, when you’re ready.
  • Block in one tap. A person reads every report.
For men

Local women who reply

  • Women nearby, not the other end of the country.
  • Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live.
  • The Verified badge means she’s passed an ID check.
  • Profiles that say what she wants, up front.

Near you

Verified members near you

Photos stay blurred until you join. That protects them, and it will protect you.

VerifiedJoin free to see
Woman, 387 miles away
VerifiedJoin free to see
Man, 249 miles away
VerifiedJoin free to see
Woman, 243 miles away
Photo checkedJoin free to see
Man, 442 miles away

Example cards. Real members appear here only if they choose to, and photos stay blurred until you join.

Three steps

How it works

Join free

Say who you are and what you’re after. About two minutes.

Get checked

A quick selfie so we know your photo is you. Add an ID check for the Verified badge if you like.

Chat, then meet

Talk until it feels right, then meet somewhere public first.

Verification

Everyone here is checked

Every member’s photo is checked by a person before anyone sees it.

A member taking a selfie for the photo check Verified
1A person checks every photo

Before any profile goes live, a member of our team looks at the photos. Anything that looks borrowed, edited or fake doesn’t get through.

2A selfie check

We ask for a quick selfie to make sure the person in the photos is the person on the profile.

3An ID check for the Verified badge

Members can check their ID with Yoti in about a minute. Yoti checks the document and tells us it matched. We never see or keep the document.

4Reports read by people

Report a profile and someone on our team reviews it. Fake profiles are removed.

Before you join

Questions people ask

In shortReal UK Sex Contacts is a casual dating site for adults in the UK. Every profile photo is checked by a person, members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, and joining and browsing are free. Adults only.

Is it only for people in the UK?

Most members are in the UK, and you choose how far away to look. You can widen it to partner sites on the same platform if you like.

Is Real UK Sex Contacts real?

Yes. Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live, and members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge. Profiles that look fake are removed as soon as they’re found.

Will anyone know I’m on here?

Your photos stay inside the site, your profile never appears on search engines, and the name on your bank statement doesn’t mention dating.

Is Real UK Sex Contacts free?

Joining, making a profile and looking around are free. A membership lets you read and reply to messages, and you’ll see the options before you pay anything.

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