Discreet dating for married people

Still married. Still want to feel alive.

For married people who are staying in their marriage for their own reasons, but want fun, attention and someone who gets it. Every photo is checked by a person, and discretion is built in.

See who’s nearby

I’m aWomanMan

Looking forA man

WhereNear me

Have a look, free

Free to join and browse. 18+. We’ll check your photo is you.

Real photosEvery photo checked by a person

Verified badgeMembers who pass an ID check

DiscreetA plain name on your statement

Your rulesChoose who can message you

Who it’s for

Same idea. Different reasons.

Women and men come here for different things. We built it for both.

For women

Discreet, and on your terms

Keep your photos private until you choose to share them.
Only hear from Verified men if you prefer.
Nothing about the site on your bank statement.
Block anyone instantly. A person reads every report.

For men

Women in the same situation

Women who are married too, so everyone understands the rules.
Every photo is checked by a person.
The Verified badge means she has passed an ID check.
Private photos, and a plain name on your statement.

Near you

Verified members near you

Photos stay blurred until you join. That protects them, and it will protect you.

VerifiedJoin free to see

Woman, 349 miles away

VerifiedJoin free to see

Man, 558 miles away

VerifiedJoin free to see

Woman, 494 miles away

Photo checkedJoin free to see

Man, 514 miles away

Example cards. Real members appear here only if they choose to, and photos stay blurred until you join.

Three steps

How it works

Join free

Say who you are and what you’re after. About two minutes.

Get checked

A quick selfie so we know your photo is you. Add an ID check for the Verified badge if you like.

Chat, then meet

Talk until it feels right, then meet somewhere public first.

Verification

Everyone here is checked

Every member’s photo is checked by a person before anyone sees it.

A member taking a selfie for the photo check

Verified

1A person checks every photo

Before any profile goes live, a member of our team looks at the photos. Anything that looks borrowed, edited or fake doesn’t get through.

2A selfie check

We ask for a quick selfie to make sure the person in the photos is the person on the profile.

3An ID check for the Verified badge

Members can check their ID with Yoti in about a minute. Yoti checks the document and tells us it matched. We never see or keep the document.

4Reports read by people

Report a profile and someone on our team reviews it. Fake profiles are removed.

Before you join

Questions people ask

In shortMeet My Mistress is a casual dating site for adults. Every profile photo is checked by a person, members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, and joining and browsing are free. Adults only.

Who is Meet My Mistress for?

Married people who have chosen to stay married, for children, family, money or reasons of their own, and want more fun and connection in their lives. Everyone here is in a similar place, so nobody has to explain.

How discreet is it?

Your profile never appears on search engines, private photos are shared one person at a time, and the name on your bank statement does not mention dating.

Is Meet My Mistress real?

Yes. Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live, and members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge. Profiles that look fake are removed as soon as they’re found.

Will anyone know I’m on here?

Your photos stay inside the site, your profile never appears on search engines, and the name on your bank statement doesn’t mention dating.

All questions

A little more life, kept between you.

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