Adults only (18+). Nothing explicit here, and members’ photos never leave the site.
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Kink-friendly casual dating

Find people who like what you like.

For adults into kink and fetish who want to meet people who share it. Limits come first, every photo is checked by a person, and nothing explicit appears on public pages.

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Free to join and browse. 18+. We’ll check your photo is you.
Real photosEvery photo checked by a person
Verified badgeMembers who pass an ID check
DiscreetA plain name on your statement
Your rulesChoose who can message you

Who it’s for

Same idea. Different reasons.

Women and men come here for different things. We built it for both.

For women

Your limits come first

  • Set your limits on your profile. Everyone sees them.
  • Only hear from Verified people if you prefer.
  • Meet somewhere public first, every time.
  • Report anyone who ignores a no. A person reads every report.
For men

People who share your interests

  • Profiles say what people are into, so you don’t have to guess.
  • Every photo is checked by a person.
  • The Verified badge shows you’re real and serious.
  • Respect limits and people will want to talk to you.

Near you

Verified members near you

Photos stay blurred until you join. That protects them, and it will protect you.

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Woman, 306 miles away
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Man, 425 miles away
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Woman, 266 miles away
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Man, 363 miles away

Example cards. Real members appear here only if they choose to, and photos stay blurred until you join.

Three steps

How it works

Join free

Say who you are and what you’re after. About two minutes.

Get checked

A quick selfie so we know your photo is you. Add an ID check for the Verified badge if you like.

Chat, then meet

Talk until it feels right, then meet somewhere public first.

Verification

Real people, kept private

Every member’s photo is checked by a person before anyone sees it.

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1A person checks every photo

Before any profile goes live, a member of our team looks at the photos. Anything that looks borrowed, edited or fake doesn’t get through.

2A selfie check

We ask for a quick selfie to make sure the person in the photos is the person on the profile.

3An ID check for the Verified badge

Members can check their ID with Yoti in about a minute. Yoti checks the document and tells us it matched. We never see or keep the document.

4Reports read by people

Report a profile and someone on our team reviews it. Fake profiles are removed.

Before you join

Questions people ask

In shortFetish Fun Buddies is a casual dating site for adults. Every profile photo is checked by a person, members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, and joining and browsing are free. Adults only.

How does consent work here?

Members list what they’re into and their hard limits on their profile. Talk it through before you meet, meet somewhere public first, and stop when anyone says stop.

Is Fetish Fun Buddies real?

Yes. Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live, and members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge. Profiles that look fake are removed as soon as they’re found.

Will anyone know I’m on here?

Your photos stay inside the site, your profile never appears on search engines, and the name on your bank statement doesn’t mention dating.

Is Fetish Fun Buddies free?

Joining, making a profile and looking around are free. A membership lets you read and reply to messages, and you’ll see the options before you pay anything.

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