Adults only (18+). Nothing explicit here, and members’ photos never leave the site.
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Cape Town lit up at night below Table Mountain

Casual dating in South Africa

Something casual, close to home.

For adults in Jozi, Cape Town, Durban and everywhere in between who want to meet someone for fun. Every photo checked by a person, no catfish.

See who’s nearby

I’m aWomanMan
Looking forA man
Town or suburbSandton
Have a look, free
Free to join and browse. 18+. We’ll check your photo is you.
Real photosEvery photo checked by a person
Verified badgeMembers who pass an ID check
DiscreetA plain name on your statement
Your rulesChoose who can message you

Who it’s for

Same idea. Different reasons.

Women and men come here for different things. We built it for both.

For women

Fun, with no drama

  • You choose who can message you.
  • Only hear from Verified men if you prefer.
  • Meet somewhere public first, on your terms.
  • Block in one tap. A person reads every report.
For men

Real women, not catfish

  • Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live.
  • The Verified badge means she’s passed an ID check.
  • Women nearby, not on the other side of the country.
  • Profiles that say what she wants, up front.

Near you

Verified members near you

Photos stay blurred until you join. That protects them, and it will protect you.

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Woman, 29Sandton, 4 km
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Man, 33Rosebank, 6 km
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Woman, 34Sea Point, 3 km
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Woman, 27Umhlanga, 8 km

Example cards. Real members appear here only if they choose to, and photos stay blurred until you join.

Three steps

How it works

Join free

Say who you are and what you’re after. About two minutes.

Get checked

A quick selfie so we know your photo is you. Add an ID check for the Verified badge if you like.

Chat, then meet

Talk until it feels right, then meet somewhere public first.

Verification

Everyone here is checked

Every member’s photo is checked by a person before anyone sees it.

A member taking a selfie for the photo check Verified
1A person checks every photo

Before any profile goes live, a member of our team looks at the photos. Anything that looks borrowed, edited or fake doesn’t get through.

2A selfie check

We ask for a quick selfie to make sure the person in the photos is the person on the profile.

3An ID check for the Verified badge

Members can check their ID with Yoti in about a minute. Yoti checks the document and tells us it matched. We never see or keep the document.

4Reports read by people

Report a profile and someone on our team reviews it. Fake profiles are removed.

Before you join

Questions people ask

In shortCasual Naai is a casual dating site for adults in South Africa. Every profile photo is checked by a person, members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge, and joining and browsing are free. Adults only.

Which cities is it busiest in?

Members join from all over South Africa, with most in Gauteng, the Western Cape and KwaZulu-Natal. You choose how far to look.

Is Casual Naai real?

Yes. Every photo is checked by a person before it goes live, and members who pass an ID check carry a Verified badge. Profiles that look fake are removed as soon as they’re found.

Will anyone know I’m on here?

Your photos stay inside the site, your profile never appears on search engines, and the name on your bank statement doesn’t mention dating.

Is Casual Naai free?

Joining, making a profile and looking around are free. A membership lets you read and reply to messages, and you’ll see the options before you pay anything.

All questions

Your next braai could be a lot more interesting.

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